For Marie:
Simple Website Menu using CSS2

"This is a simple list-based menu, with CSS2 menu triggers for browsers that support them, and a touch of equivalent javascript for others.

Link to example page & instructions on how to implement it as well."

This could solve the "spacing" issue that the menu you currently use has, also it would be MUCH easier to implement(rather that the complex dreamweaver/fireworks thingie and then cut and pasting the code). I don't mind helping you to get it to work because I would like to learn how to use it as well.